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=46rom: Blake Allsmith <blake=40allsmith.org>
Date: Apr 24, 2026 at 10:31=E2=80=AFAM -0400
To: tjphuhs=40gmail.com
Subject: A couple things on my mind...

> Hey folks=21
> Happy =46riday=21 A couple things on my mind...
> 1. Wispr: Have you tried Wispr =46low yet=3F It's voice-to-text softwar=
e; you hit the fn key and talk, and it uses AI to handle punctuation, cap=
italization, etc. But the speed isn't actually the main unlock for me. Wh=
at changed my workflow is how it pairs with AI. When you're typing a prom=
pt, you tend to write it linearly and ship it. When you're talking, you n=
aturally loop back, add context, rephrase, contradict yourself, circle an=
 idea from three angles before landing. All of that extra texture goes in=
to the prompt, and the AI output gets noticeably better because of it. Ho=
nestly, even if dictation were the same speed as typing, I'd still use it=
 just for this. If you're working with AI a lot, it's worth the switch. (=
The iPhone app still kind of stinks tho, bc Apple is being territorial.)
> 2. To Do Capture System: Between our rental properties and our home, we=
 have a lot to get done around the house in the spring. Chandler and I us=
ed to keep a shared Apple Notes folder, but it got overwhelming fast. The=
 bigger issue wasn't tracking tasks, it was that we had no shared way to =
decide what actually mattered that week. So this week I built a simple sy=
stem:
> - Capture: This has to be simple. I did a Google =46orm with three ques=
tions (Task, Location, Who's submitting: me, Chandler, or my mother in la=
w Donna, who helps manage the properties).
> =E2=80=8B - Prioritize/Schedule: That form auto-populates into our week=
ly meeting spreadsheet, where Chandler and I score urgency, decide DIY vs=
 hire out, and schedule it. I even auto-generate a suggested priority sco=
re.
>
> Here is what the spreadsheet looks like, you'll have to wire up the Goo=
gle =46orm yourself to make the connection.
> 3. Parenting Book =46or Siblings: Having a large family w/ a wide age s=
pan (7 kids, 14-->1) I'm noticing that one of our biggest challenges is t=
hat our younger kids are in many ways being parented partially by our old=
er kids. This just happens naturally, Chandler or I will leave the room a=
nd if the younger acts out, the older kid will correct them. There are a =
couple recurring behaviors with our younger kids, that I keep wondering =22=
what makes you think this bad behavior will work=3F=22 Then I realized, i=
t was working on the older kids. So - the solution is that every day at b=
reakfast we've been reading through a short chapter of a parenting book t=
ogether and walking through scenarios of how they can apply the principle=
s as siblings. It's been really helpful so far. AMA.
> That's it for this week=21
> Best,
> Blake
> =E2=80=8BUnsubscribe =7C Update your profile =7C 1455 Dalton Ave, Cinci=
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<b>=46rom:</b> Blake Allsmith &lt;blake=40allsmith.org&gt;<br />
<b>Date:</b> Apr 24, 2026 at 10:31=E2=80=AFAM -0400<br />
<b>To:</b> tjphuhs=40gmail.com<br />
<b>Subject:</b> A couple things on my mind...<br />
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>Hey folks=21</p>
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,BlinkMacSystem=46ont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Hel=
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>Happy =46riday=21 A couple things on my mind...</p>
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,BlinkMacSystem=46ont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Hel=
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><strong>1.</strong> <a href=3D=22https://aa179d84.click.kit-mail3.com/0v=
u0xv56gxf9h9r3vloalhv70mkxvfnhd7v2o/e0hph7h7o04gwmc8/aHR0cHM6Ly93aXNwcmZs=
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<strong>Wispr</strong></a><strong>:</strong> Have you tried Wispr =46low =
yet=3F It's voice-to-text software; you hit the fn key and talk, and it u=
ses AI to handle punctuation, capitalization, etc. But the speed isn't ac=
tually the main unlock for me. What changed my workflow is how it pairs w=
ith AI. When you're typing a prompt, you tend to write it linearly and sh=
ip it. When you're talking, you naturally loop back, add context, rephras=
e, contradict yourself, circle an idea from three angles before landing. =
All of that extra texture goes into the prompt, and the AI output gets no=
ticeably better because of it. Honestly, even if dictation were the same =
speed as typing, I'd still use it just for this. If you're working with A=
I a lot, it's worth the switch. (The iPhone app still kind of stinks tho,=
 bc Apple is being territorial.)</p>
<p class=3D=22=22 style=3D=22margin:1em 0;font-family:Arial,-apple-system=
,BlinkMacSystem=46ont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Hel=
vetica Neue',sans-serif;color:=23202124;font-size:14px;line-height:1.4=22=
><strong>2. To Do Capture System:</strong> Between our rental properties =
and our home, we have a lot to get done around the house in the spring. C=
handler and I used to keep a shared Apple Notes folder, but it got overwh=
elming fast. The bigger issue wasn't tracking tasks, it was that we had n=
o shared way to decide what actually mattered that week. So this week I b=
uilt a simple system:<br />
<strong>- Capture:</strong> This has to be simple. I did a Google =46orm =
with three questions (Task, Location, Who's submitting: me, Chandler, or =
my mother in law Donna, who helps manage the properties).<br />
=E2=80=8B <strong>- Prioritize/Schedule:</strong> That form auto-populate=
s into our weekly meeting spreadsheet, where Chandler and I score urgency=
, decide DIY vs hire out, and schedule it. I even auto-generate a suggest=
ed priority score.<br />
=E2=80=8B<a href=3D=22https://aa179d84.click.kit-mail3.com/0vu0xv56gxf9h9=
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Here</a> is what the spreadsheet looks like, you'll have to wire up the G=
oogle =46orm yourself to make the connection.</p>
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,BlinkMacSystem=46ont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Hel=
vetica Neue',sans-serif;color:=23202124;font-size:14px;line-height:1.4=22=
><strong>3. Parenting Book =46or Siblings:</strong> Having a large family=
 w/ a wide age span (7 kids, 14--&gt;1) I'm noticing that one of our bigg=
est challenges is that our younger kids are in many ways being parented p=
artially by our older kids. This just happens naturally, Chandler or I wi=
ll leave the room and if the younger acts out, the older kid will correct=
 them. There are a couple recurring behaviors with our younger kids, that=
 I keep wondering =22what makes you think this bad behavior will work=3F=22=
 Then I realized, it was working on the <em>older kids</em>. So - the sol=
ution is that every day at breakfast we've been reading through a short c=
hapter of a <a href=3D=22https://aa179d84.click.kit-mail3.com/0vu0xv56gxf=
9h9r3vloalhv70mkxvfnhd7v2o/owhkhqhwdrovl9cv/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuYW1hem9uLmNvb=
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l-id=3D=221850144943=22>parenting book</a> together and walking through s=
cenarios of how they can apply the principles as siblings. It's been real=
ly helpful so far. AMA.</p>
<p class=3D=22=22 style=3D=22margin:1em 0;font-family:Arial,-apple-system=
,BlinkMacSystem=46ont,'Segoe UI',Roboto,Oxygen-Sans,Ubuntu,Cantarell,'Hel=
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>That's it for this week=21</p>
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